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Saturday, 19 November 2011

Change with Changing times

Narmu writes : "I am new to this site. I am very proud to be a Badaga girl. Our people are very loving, caring and are with humanity to a great extent except when it comes to inter caste marriage. They even accept when our boy marries a non-Badaga girl, but they really don't accept when our girl marries with a non-Badaga boy. My view is that the parents ego plays a vital role. In today's trends both the men and women are matured enough to choose their spouse. Any one who comes across this post, dont mistake me, its just my views".  
(Please note: This website encourages all shades of opinions from viewers. You may agree or NOT agree with the views of some but harsh comments/ posts will not be approved/published. Editing or deletion of comments is at the discretion of the author/editor- Wg Cdr JP)

This topic, in my opinion, needs our urgent attention. There is plenty of truth in what Narmu says. Do we, especially the elders in the community, need to change our mind set? Is it not time to change with the 'changing times'?? - Wg Cdr JP

 Some comments
  • MAHALAKSHMI R on 18/11/2011

    Being an unmarried girl I am against inter-caste marriage. I don’t want to tell how my parents will think then! We will surely lose our identity in the society if inter caste marriages are encouraged. Development among a community should make it grow and not to disappear… We are proud that our people today are roaming throughout the World making many changes if this is encouraged then our people will be existing and not the culture. I am against this…..
  • shanker krishnamurthy on 16/11/2011

    …if intercaste marriage is accepted then after a flow of years will there be people to say I proud to be a Baduga?. I ll never accept a intercaste marriage. To be frank I am first a Baduga then only Hindu or Indian.
  • sofiajoghee  on 14/11/2011 

    Culture is something that one adapts. Are we not learning English to survive? Does it mean we forgot Badagu?
    For people who are so strict about not adapting, should keep it to themselves and not impose on others. Why don’t we all just go back to our hatti and do agriculture and grace cows instead of using computers for any matter? We have grown because we have adapted. Lets not restrict the growth. Keep faith and culture within and let it nurish.

    Main problem is not that the parents are opposing, but if the parents accept such marriages, their final rituals face lot of issues in our community. Also, the person who has done inter-caste marriage is treated as if the parents are no more their parents. Who on earth or any community for that matter devoid a child from parents just because they chose their partners. Inter state, and inter caste marriages have enriched lot of cultures since history. Those cultures who have tried to be closed have depleted soon. Its only fear that is prevailing and narrow thoughts, which we have to overcome.
    We need to change, at least for the kind of global movement of our people, culture is something we have in our heart and what we follow and not in choosing a soul mate.

    ….no body encourages because, everybody thinks somebody will ill treat them and anybody could question them. Fear is the major factor. Unconditional love will prevail in this world. don’t condition and restrict it to ourselves. Spread love and respect, it will reflect on us. World is like a mirror, we get what we give.
  • Krishnaraj.P.H. on 13/11/2011 

    I agree to what you have said Jaypee brother. Days are now changing and its a comedy that some one claims that ” karu harasudhu” comes from somewhere else!!!!
    We on the whole think and like our Badugas to stay as such what we are.I think all of us have that in mind as a Baduga, but it is left to their own opinion if they need to marry their girl out side or marry a girl from other religion or caste towards their family.
  • mlle_sumathi  on 13/11/2011 

    Uniqueness will always be enriched with integration. Extreme thoughts will only create more rebellious actions and people will tend to drift away from our culture.Instead, if you try to accommodate some minor differences, you will win more hearts .Guidelines are better than strict rules. Indian civilization is still alive today because it did not enforce but rather accommodated so many diverse cultures along so many centuries. We do not need any police to protect such a rich community as ours. “Change is the only constant ” .Why are people opposing about changes ??
  • senthil Kumar  on 13/11/2011 

    A Culture is to be a culture only when it has an unique characteristics in it. One change will open the way for another change and then so on,then one final day our community will disappear and I totally disagree with what is posted.May be its an openion but to be a Badaga ” Save our Culture ” that is the great honour that we do to our community.Even after several we can shoot up the statement that ” I’m a proud Badaga”. Anand has given a clear statement …… while we have lots to discuss about how to save our community.
    Hello Senthil, thanks for your comments. What statements/comments should appear in my website will be decided by me. I agree with you that we have lots to discuss about how to save our community. The greatest threat to our community and culture is the shocking religious conversion ( many times forced or lured by money) to Christianity. This neo converts have gone to the extent of claiming that ‘savu karu harachodhu’ is from their holy book. Or, for example, many Badagas prefer to talk to each other [including within family] ONLY in Tamil instead of ‘BADAGU’ or see the number of disgusting ‘tappangkuthu ‘ videos uploaded in YouTube as Badaga dance, what can we do about that? It is a FREE world, everybody is entitled to voice his/her opinion. – Wg Cdr JP
  • kumar bellie on 12/11/2011

    Can we call a non Badaga guy as “IYYABETTA”? CAN HE WEAR DOTHI AND DANCE IN OUR HABBA? BADAGA IS BADAGA… ….. NOBODY IS ENCOURAGING BADAGA WITH NON BADAGA MARRIAGE……. [some portion deleted - Wg Cdr JP]
  • anand  on 12/11/2011 

    Why talk about inter caste marriage? We should try to protect our culture and customs maintained by our elders. Our male female ratio is not that bad, we encourage these type of statements. Everyone will get their life partners within our community. In my opinion no need to encourage this.

    • mlle_sumathi  on 12/11/2011  

      Such a narrow minded thought !!! you have to evolve. Sorry about that.

1 comment:

  1. Good one v r human not subject life s love its from heart not need anything true only enough and marriage s also culture thats both of all

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